A parent recently asked me, “What book can I read to feel more positive?” I asked her for clarification. I wanted to know what she wanted to achieve. “I just feel like the last few months have left me in a dark place.” She was worried that her mood was impacting her...
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Tiger Moms versus Jewish Moms
Whether they are Chinese or not, my friends who have Asian heritage use the term “Tiger Mom” to describe or to contrast with the way that their parents raised them. We did not have a term like “Tiger Mom” to describe how we were raised but we do have the caricature of the “Jewish Mom” who is always checking in, worried and anxious, maybe a little controlling.
What if you don’t feel safe sending your kids back to school?
What are you going to do when your kids’ school decides to reopen but you don’t feel safe sending them? Parents are struggling right now to find the right path. When school districts don’t allow you to decide to keep them home, or when you cannot stay home with your...
One Easy Step to Become a Positive Parent
Do you yell more than you would like? Are you the fun parent or the grouch? Would you like to change your ratio of work-time to play-time? I can help you become the parent that your kids deserve to have.
Get the summer you deserve (and desperately need) How you can get your partner to take the reins so you can get a break.
Face it: for the 45,567,234th morning in a row since schools closed, there is no one waiting at the bottom of the stairs with a warm cup of coffee, slow-clapping in gratitude for the Herculean job you did to drag your ass out of bed early. Are they the same crickets...
Why Quarantining is Hardest for Moms
photo credit: Ilayza Macayan/Unsplash When China loosened restrictions on social movement and people could finally leave their homes, there was a spike in women filing for divorce. According to one woman interviewed, she didn’t “want to endure anymore. We’ve agreed to...
She Persisted
A woman who attended the Let it GO! Intro Talk this week asked why super.BUILD serves early-career female-identifying professionals. I asked her where the next Elizabeth Warren, the next Lynn Zeitlin, will come from.
super.BUILD is a space for women to learn from each other. It is a place to connect. We need more incubators for leaders and mentors. With super.BUILD, I am creating that community.
DoorDash Won’t Deliver a Friend
In this new age based on connections, your wealth will depend on the quality (not quantity) of relationships you can build and maintain. If you are like Victoria, surrounded by friends-on-paper, where can you start building real bonds with real humans?
Where can you find people who actually “see” you?
What is super.BUILD? (FAQ)
If you have questions about super.BUILD, this is the beginning of our “library.”
If you don’t find the answer here, I can GUARANTEE other people are probably wondering the same thing.
You are not alone. Just ask.
Wrapped in Fear
Yesterday, she woke with so much optimism. Why was she suddenly in the opposite mood, disheartened and stressed? She couldn’t shake the fear from the dream.
Janae forced herself to climb out of bed. It was hard to build her morning routine at first. When Janae learned about Positive Psychology at super.BUILD, she learned how to leverage her keystone habit (meditating) to build a routine that allowed her to flex her superpower of creativity.
Side Effects Include…
Side effects for people who apply Positive Psychology research include an enhanced sense of mindfulness, strengthening of your focusing muscle, and (lab-proven) improved health outcomes. Users may also experience a greater level of empathy with those they love, or even just like.
Who Has Time to Even Read?
“Dad, you do that know that books are dead, right?“ warned one of our kids, to whom I would later dedicate my 2015 book “Laugh More, Yell Less: A guide to raising kick-ass kids.“
And the funny thing is that they were the rare kind of kid that would actually sit down and read. In fact, they would regularly do something that I struggle to do: finish a book.











