You may be stronger than you realize in managing change
My esteemed professor Maurice Prout taught me to ask three questions when I found myself hesitant to take action: What’s the real risk? What’s the real chance of that risk happening? If it did happen, could you take the hit? Until I tease apart these...
No More Mr. Nice Dad
I am nice. I wasn’t raised with great boundaries, so I lean toward niceness out of an instinct for survival. I find it easier to put my needs last and take care of someone else’s needs first. When I was young, I was confused by my family, particularly my...
Why do *I* have to say I’m sorry?
I’m sorry. The most powerful two-word phrase in the English language …and every language: I’m sorry. Why is it so powerful to hear “I’m sorry”? Because “I’m sorry” can repair the hurt that I caused you. A true apology can rebuild and strengthen...